Most people are not on the extreme ends of some morality pole, digging in their heels about what is absolutely moral or immoral because we live in a world where history has shown that extremism only leads to painful experiences.
The women who are firm in their resolve to have "the right to choose" are not seeking the ability to use abortion as a form of regular and general birth control. We already know that a baby is a living person during the final trimester of pregnancy. The main reason a termination might be considered that late is to save the life of the mother and make every effort to also save the life of the child. Too much time is spent pretending the issue is about extremist thinking. And I believe the real purpose is to deflect us from coming together, joining forces, and seeing how wholesome we are as a nation filled with reasonable diversity.